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Performative Activism and why it’s not enough

I’ve seen this buzzword come up a few times in feeds and on social (just glue my hand to my phone at this point). I think it’s important to address, especially with my friends and family who hold positions of power and are capable of acting out institutional change. What does “performative activism” mean? It […]

Austin Filming

For my white friends who feel attacked:

To all my white friends and family who feel attacked right now, I want you to know I see you and I hear you. I don’t think it’s funny that you feel uncomfortable and I don’t think the people taunting you are always justified. I don’t expect your blind acceptance and I don’t want your […]

Entertainment

Netflix’s Spinning Out is the right kind of cringe

In Samantha Stratton’s Spinning Out, compassionate storytelling weave the figure skating lives of the Baker women into their reality of living with bipolar disorder. Here’s what I think the show did well, and why you should watch.

Inspiration

You’re not broken; you’re just unhappy.

You’re not broken, you’re just unhappy. Let’s unpack that.

Austin Filming

Outdoor Shoot Locations for Free or Cheap in Austin

Working on a video with low or no budget? Check out these Austin outdoor venues for backgrounds with a great vibe.

Birthday Month

It was the best of times; it was the worst of times.

The last year of my life changed everything about me. For the better.

Inspiration

Why not me, why not now?

How can you go from a world full of self doubt and reasons you can’t succeed to a place of confidence? Maybe it’s time to start asking: Why not me? Why not now?

Thoughts

I’ll put the psycho in your psychosomatic

Living with symptoms is only half the battle when you suffer from a long-term debilitating illness. The other half is psychological, social and a battle for your own beliefs.

Thoughts

Create a work life that acknowledges reality.

When we create a life that denies our very real needs, we end up breaking ourselves to fit someone else’s mode. I talk about creating a work life that is both realistic to you and lifegiving.

TV Reviews

Castle Rock is everything you hate about Stephen King novels.

Look, I love Bill Skaarsgard so much. He is hella spooky looking and does not match his name at all, but he is incredibly talented. So when I saw he was in another horror show (he formerly starred in the Netflix gore fest that was Hemlock Grove), I thought – sure – I’ll give him […]

Beauty

Pops of Poppy

To bring out the green eyed monster in me (or just to brighten up my face) – I liked to use a purple look. Check out my tutorial featuring some nontraditional hues from Sephora Collection, Pure Cosmetics and more.

Thoughts

Let’s Talk Accountability

You’re responsible for the life you are (or aren’t) building. Today I’m talking choices that make up who we are and how we owe good decisions to ourselves and the people who support us.

Thoughts

May is Mental Health Awareness Month!

May is Mental Health Awareness month, and my message to you is to surround yourself with people who understand that depression and anxiety are NOT your fault or your failure.

Beauty

Pretty in Purple

ATX Life

Dear Austin: Where are the women who look like me?

In America’s fittest city, living life as a healthy and happy curvy girl feels like sacrilege or failure of some kind. As a #realaustinwoman, I want to change that.

Beauty

The Goddess Glow

Sometimes we want makeup that makes us feel like the goddess we are. Here’s my less than twenty goddess look for you to repeat!

Thoughts

Your People Exist. Go Find Them.

My journey back into the community was a slow, measured route taken a few steps at a time. Read why I think your people are out there, too.

Beauty

My Everyday Casual Makeup

On a day when my skin isn’t so hot but I don’t necessarily want to go for glam, this casual look is my favorite easy apply look. I use dewy, natural colored products from Lorac, Tarte, Clinique, Butter London and more.

Entertainment

Barry is back and even better for season two

Bill Hader and Alec Berg managed to create a comedy that is both heartbreakingly sincere and filled with gut shaking dark humor in Barry season one. In season two, they’ve brought more of that to the table. Read why Barry is the show you should be watching.

Thoughts

Decide for Yourself Who You Will Be

Using your power to choose your fate can change your life. Are you making conscious decisions to direct your course? Read here.

Thoughts

Mindfulness for Beginners

Mindfulness as a practice can seem overwhelming. Here are some easy steps to start your journey toward full presence.

Love and Sex

Sexuality is Fluid; Love Your Unicorn

As a married bisexual woman, sexuality was a complicated, messy question for me. Read why I think you don’t need definitions.

Inspiration

The Depressed Girl’s Guide to Contentment

When we’ve dealt with negative emotions for so long, sometimes we can convince ourselves that those are all we deserve. This is your guide to fighting for your happiness and accepting peace.

ATX Life

Places: Cute Nail Studio

In my Places section of the site I recommend my favorites – favorite nail salons, gyms, restaurants, dry cleaners, etc. in Austin. Need to get a cool manicure? Check out Cute Nail Studio

Inspiration

Getting Past the Woo: How to Check In with your Body, Mind and Soul

Checking in with our body, mind and soul may sound daunting and a little too “new age.” This post focuses on practical questions to ask ourselves to find the answer that lead us toward healing.

Thoughts

My Anti-Resolutions Resolutions

I think goal-oriented resolutions are often steeped in some form of self-hate or a societal ideal of what an adventurous, fit or healthy person does. Instead, this year I’ve decided to reflect and evaluate some of my relationships with the world around me that started changing in 2018 and I’d like to think about more in 2019.